I love my parent!

My parent are Gan Swee Chong and Tiong Fak Ting.

Thank you for providing me everything..

Thank you for giving me the chance to make decision and support me..

Thank you for not asking my exams' result and encourage me whenever I tell my result..

I am really blissful!!

It was 4am...

It was 4am, 14^th Oct 2009. I was still awake. It was not because I had insomnia; not because I just finished played games; not also because I just played facebook; or not even because I just finished study. I suddenly had the urge to write this post because I just conducted a delivery after waiting for 5 hours.

My patient is a 19 years old Iban girl (similar to my sister’s age), currently in the 38^th week of her 1^st pregnancy. Antenatally uncomplicated and estimated fetal weight is about 3kg (not so big). When I 1^st saw her, I was very happy because her Os is 4cm already, which means I was able to deliver the baby soon. However, the patient kept complaining of lower abdominal and back pain. I was pity her so I asked the doctor whether can give her analgesia. The doctor agreed to give her NO₂ + O₂. But she became restless and tried to twist her body on the bed to relieve the pain and refused to take the analgesia. And because of that, the fetal heart tracing was very poor. So we were not sure the baby is ok or not. She even cried and hit the pillow (fortunately didn’t hit me la..:P) and refuse me to count the contractions.

Initially I thought she needed to be sent for Cesarean section and started to lose interest in waiting her. But fortunately she delivered the baby safely and I was able to fill my log book.

The story ended here but my points of view are:

1. The patient is young. She is only 19 years old. She can’t even tolerate the pain of labour. She kept asking me why is it so painful and why it takes so long time to deliver a baby. I can’t understand that if you are not well prepared to become a mother, then please don’t become. Every lady should know that labour is really really a very painful event. Therefore you should tolerate it but not throwing the tantrum. I am not saying that you can’t have sex before marriage or you can’t marriage if you are scared of pain. You can have sex but please use contraception if you are not well prepared for the most painful event. If you really wish to have a child, then I believe that the urge to have a child can cover your pain.

2. Deliver a baby is a very hard job for a doctor or nurses or a medical students. From the beginning until you clean the patient, equipment and bed, it really needs a lot of time and energy. I can frankly shout out that the most number of deliveries you can do in one day is 2-3. It is very tiring and I can ensure you that you can’t finished 5-6 deliveries in one day unless you use short cut.

Weight lost plan..

An overweight guy prayed to God everyday for a thinner and more handsome look. He prayed that God may make him to lose some fat, increase his metabolism rate to burn more fat and to make him more attractive to others.

However, he didn’t get what he prayed. He started to feel disappointed and wonder why God does not listen and answer his prayer.

Until one day...

This guy met with a road traffic accident. A metal rod pierced into his abdomen. However, he survived with mild internal organs injury. He started to understand…

God’s plans are greater and more perfect than men’s..

Don't simply hold someone's hand; Don't even let go someone's hand simply..(Translation)

Maybe there is a season/period for broken relationship. Some of my friends also has the same fate as me - become the prey of this season. One day, i read the one article in my friend's blog and found it is nice and meaningful. Here I am to translate it into English version and share with you..(If wrong please don't blame me..Haha..):P

Don't simply hold someone's hand; Don't even let go someone's hand..

Do you realise that the beginning of love is sweet? You will not feel lonely as there is always "a person" accompany you, think of you, loving you, and share the problem with you. Everything is complete when both of you together.

But slowly, gradually, with the increase of understanding, you will start discover the bad thing on your partner. Conflicts and problems will come out one by one and you start to feel bored, tired or even want to flea.

There is a saying that love is like picking the stone. Everyone is trying to pick the most suitable one for himself, but how do you sure or know when can you found the most suitable one? Even if you found one who is the most suitable for you, but are you the most suitable one in her eyes?

Actually, the love should be represented by polishing a stone. Maybe you are not very satisfy at the time you picked the stone. But please remember that, human is very dynamic, there are many things can be changed. If you have faith and courage, one day a stone even can become a diamond. Would you rather go and pick the stone randomly which you are not sure, than stay and start to polish the stone which you already possessed?

LIFE = MOVIE ; MOVIE=LIFE

There is no continuous happiness. If not, the life will be very boring.

Life is actually like a “movie” and God is the one who is watching. He also doesn’t like to watch comedy everyday or at different channel (people).

Sometimes, He might love some Korean sad love story or Hong Kong action movie. Therefore, every one must have to undergo sadness and sorrow unless you are vegetative.

Babies may feel sad when they have hungry or passed fearine (feaces + urine) in the pants. Children may feel sorrow when their toys are spoilt or their parents are away. Teenager might feel sad when they failed the exam or a broken relationship. Adult may feel sorrow when they have no job or a broken family. The elderly might feel sad when their love one passed away or their children don’t respect them.

Whenever God wants to watch your sad story, please don’t blame the God or give up, you should take a good rest, take a shower, shave your face (for men), change the hair style and start a new “movie”. Good Luck!